I have the honor of capturing all the unforgettable moments of a couple’s big day. One moment that always stands out to me is when a loved one walks down the aisle with the wedding partners.

This person is usually a parent, but it doesn’t have to be. It could be a sibling, a grandparent, a close friend or your partner. The key is that this person holds a special place in the wedding couple’s life and offers their support and love on this momentous occasion.

When deciding who walks you down the aisle, consider who has played a significant role in your life and who you want to share this moment. Some couples choose to have both parents walk down the aisle with them, while others opt for just one parent or a different loved one.

If you’re struggling to decide, here are a few things to think about:

Tradition

Many couples follow traditional wedding customs, which often includes having a parent walk down the aisle with them. Consider which parent had a bigger impact on your life or has a stronger relationship with you if you want to honor this tradition.

Personal preference

Ultimately, the decision of who should walk down the aisle with you is up to you and your partner. If you have a close bond with a grandparent or sibling, for instance, you may want to consider having them instead of a parent.

Family dynamics

Consider how your decision may affect your loved ones if you have a complicated family situation. If you have a strained relationship with one parent, for example, it may be more meaningful

As a San Luis Obispo wedding photographer, it’s always a joy to capture these moments and the emotion that comes with them. When you’re deciding on a wedding photographer who offers great advice and produces great images on your special day, I’d love to help.

Venues photographed: Santa Barbara Woman’s Club, Allegretto Vineyard Resort, The Casitas Estate

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